It goes without saying that every blog is different. If it isn’t, then someone may be committing a crime. That’s a whole different story ;)
I don’t pretend to be an expert on blogging, any more than I pretend to be one as a parent. But over the past few days I’ve had lots of lovely emails from people who've found me thanks to Blogs of Note, keen to know how to build up their blogs, asking me for advice.
I’m still learning about blogging all the time and what works for me, but here’s my basic guide based on my experience and what I’ve gleaned from others.
Two other bloggers who you will find it extremely helpful to visit and learn from are Al Tait, who has written this one here and Chantelle Ellem with this one here. Both are blogging guides I think are standouts and I recommend you read and follow them too.

Starting up your blog:

1)   I write on a range of topics, but you may want to specialize in something you’re particularly interested in.  Remember it’s YOUR blog, so write about what you want to write about.

2)   I aim to write five blog posts a week. Posting on a regular basis whether it’s three or seven times a week is a solid place to start. I don’t plan or schedule my posts however, I just write them when I can.

3)   Visual is important.  When you’re starting out there are lots of great templates you can use in Blogger, so have a play round with them. I had my blog done professionally with Danielle the Design Girl who worked with me to design a blog layout I liked. A blog designer I can highly recommend is Sass who is terrific to work with and has some gorgeous designs at very reasonable prices.

4)   If you are short sighted like me, you may find light fonts on a dark background hard to read. I also have problems with very small or squiggly fonts. It may just be me, but I struggle to read posts written on them.

5)   Don’t be afraid to illustrate your story with pictures or photos. Take them yourself or source them online. But always remember to either get permission from the source or give credit when you do.


Building up your blog:

6)   Comment, comment, comment.  This is where I started and I still aim to comment on lots of blogs each week. One tip is if you find a blog you like, go through their comments and click back to the blogs of the commenters. Check out their blog roll and visit their community of bloggers too. Let that blogger know you’ve visited them. Remember to build up a community you usually have to show you’re an active part of it. This is the most “hands on” way to do that.

7)   Leaving a comment “Great Post!” is a nice way to let me know you’ve read my words, but it’s far more likely I’ll click over to your blog if you leave your opinion, experience  or advice instead.

8)   It’s important to follow blogs or subscribe to them. Don’t necessarily limit yourself to a particular type. I follow everything from craft (which I’m hopeless at, but a huge admirer of ) through to food, fashion, parenting, social justice and travel blogs. 

9)   Use facebook and twitter to build up your presence in Social Media and develop an awareness of your blog in the blogosphere. I like Twitter myself, but two bloggers who use Facebook really well and are worth checking out are Childhood 101 and SquiggleMum.

10) I’m updating my blog roll today. If you’d like me to add you to it, please leave a comment and a blog link. It is a small way for me to help you connect with other bloggers.


This is probably the most basic outline EVER. I didn’t even mention SEO, stumbleupon or page views. Which should probably tell you its level of importance to me ;)  
I’m here to share stories and what I’ve learned or experienced, and while I do have some interest in those technical elements they don’t inform my writing one iota. I hope this has been helpful in some small way. And remember to leave a comment if you want me to add you to my blog roll. x

Image courtesy of We Heart It. 




I've written before about my lack of community mindedness. I am continually impressed by people who donate their time and energy to charity works. It is a heartening reminder that there are some lovely people in the world.
The thing is, and I know this from our little contribution of fostering kittens, is that there is always a painful element involved. So far we have had to have two of the kittens we've fostered euthanised. It's hard to nurture and care for something that has been hurt or abandoned, and feel that your work has been in vain. Lots of the time there are successes. Most of our foster fur babies have been successfully adopted which is wonderful, but I wouldn't be human, if my heart didn't ache for the ones I lost.
That said, we have been continuously fostering now since the end of January and it has been a very rewarding experience. Except for the kitty litter. Words can't describe how much I HATE cleaning the litter out.
My brother is a volunteer lifesaver and most of the time it's fantastic. He lives his dream of being out on the water. But being unable to resuscitate someone was an incredibly traumatic event for him and for the family who watched their loved one pass away in front of them.
The next day he was back on the beach on patrol.
Because at the end of the day you have to keep trying don't you?
And it got me wondering what do other people do? Because the thing is I suspect everyone does something whether they know it or not.
My neighbour checks in on the elderly man down our street every single day. It doesn't matter how busy her day has been, she always pops into see him. Yesterday on the school run I was surrounded by hundreds on university students dressed up in costumes selling a newspaper. It was all to raise funds for a kids camp.
It's very easy, too easy in fact to be cynical about the world in general. But I like to think that most people do care in one way or another.
What's your 'thing?' or if you could choose, what would your 'thing' be?



One of the resolutions I made this year was to be more community minded. I am constantly awed at the efforts of those around me who selflessly devote themselves to various causes. I'm not one of them. I wish I was.
So timing really is everything isn't it?
A few weeks ago we were down at the Cat Haven selecting The Ugliest Cat in the World. I remember becoming increasingly angry at the people coming in dropping off the kittens they'd "found."
Then a lady had come in with her children about the same age as mine, with a container filled with fluffy kittens.
Being a judgemental cow I asked her where she'd "found" them.
She calmly replied that she hadn't. In fact, she and her family are foster carers. The Cat Haven has them on their wait list to call if the kittens come in and they're too small to be adopted out just yet.
Amidst the haze of my grief for our cat Lily and the adoption of our new one I found myself signing us up to be foster carers.
Because frankly I like the idea of my community service involving fluffy kittens.
And today of all days we got the call.
4 kittens.
Too small to be adopted out and in need of a loving home for two to three weeks.
They particularly like them going to homes with children, as they can be more easily adopted.
As it happened, we'd had to cancel our plans for today as two of the offspring were not well. Instead Husband made his way to the Haven with a wildly excited Miss Medium.
We go back weekly for check-ups, all their food is provided and while the kitty litter is clearly going to be a huge pain, it's totally worth it.
They even tried to help me with cleaning up today.

Hope you've all had a lovely Australia Day everyone. While it wasn't the one I had planned AT ALL. Somehow it really doesn't matter one bit.