According to someone I was chatting with recently I am a bossy person. "A very bossy person," to use their exact words.
The reason?
I use "To do" lists.
I truly didn't know that being a list maker made me bossy.
Obsessive possibly.
But not bossy.
I just like knowing what I have to do.
In fairness we had gotten together to organise a social event. I'd pulled out my trusty 'to do' list and I could practically feel the hairs on the back of her neck rising as I read through it.
My friend is very laid back. I am not. We know this about each other and mostly, we love each other and get along nicely. I'm not sure if it was the pressure of entertaining for her, or my pressure on her about entertaining, but the conversation went rapidly downhill after that.
Driving home I had a little think.
I like my kids knowing what they have to do as well. So they have little lists drawn up and each morning and afternoon they tick off the jobs they have to do.
Does this make me a domineering horrible parent?
Am I going to be responsible for them being in therapy somewhere down the track?
Though having been in therapy myself I can only see this as a very good thing.
According to my friend my list making is a sign of being a control freak and someone who needs to get things done.
When the hell did getting things done become a "Bad Thing?"
I like getting things done. I like getting to things on time and knowing what I am cooking for dinner that night.
Needless to say I am very confused.
Bossy and confused.
Are you a list maker?
Do you think this makes you bossy or does the satisfaction of the tick make it all ok?
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This is the pile of books by my bedside. Some are new, and a couple are old favourites that I like to go back and re-read. They're like old friends and I can skim familiar words and phrases without having to think too much.
Do you see a theme here?
I will say that the autobiography of Sarah Brown was a delicious surprise. She's an extraordinary lady. A class act. Gordon did well there.
My historical biographies were all terrific reads, and part of me wishes I could write one. I love the idea of researching a person and gathering together everything I possibly can and synthesizing it. I have the perfect person in mind, but not the budget or time sadly.
I absolutely loved Hazel Rowley's biography of Eleanor and Franklin Roosevelt. In a note of poignancy, she was due to appear at the Perth Writer's Festival, but died unexpectedly the week beforehand. I'd have been thrilled to get her autograph. I'm thankful she has this book as a testimony to her writing and research skills.
I know my obsession with biographies and autobiographies will pass and I will move onto a different genre soon. But till then I will keep hunting down books like this that take my fancy and buying them. Not borrowing. Recent events have made me passionate about supporting our book industry. And I figure one of our children will read them one day.
Maybe even I will get to feature on their shelf too.
Fingers crossed.
Except when typing.
Are you reading anything good right now?
'919 copies.'
On Friday I spent the day on a course appropriately titled "The A-Z of the publishing industry." Along with many other hopeful faces we were witness to the words of wisdom from some heavyweights in the publishing industry. The panel moderator was Angela Meyer aka Literary Minded and we heard from everyone ranging from Mandy Brett from Text Publishing through to Emma Morris, a publicist from Scribe.
What I heard was both insanely depressing and wildly exciting. Mainly because I like a challenge. And believe me, the message coming through loud and clear was that getting work published these days is next to impossible. Not totally, but close. Two points stand out from the day amidst the many gems that were littered throughout it.
a) You need to get an agent. Which is incredibly hard, on a par with removing wisdom teeth without using anaesthetic, but there are ways to do it.
b) There is a new(ish) step you need to take before submitting your ms to an agent or publishing house. You should have it structurally edited first.
Session 1: Where do you start?
Meredith Curnow from Random House was first up and was amazing. The kind of person I would have loved to have lunch with. Unfortunately when I later did see her at lunch and stuttered how fab I thought she was, her reply was: "I thought you were all supposed to still be in the lecture!" Er, no, we weren't. And clearly I won't ever make it through her slush pile ;)
Her advice however, was both sound and sensible.
Soundbites included:
-write in an area you are comfortable writing in
-the first thing that strikes me is 'the voice'
-nothing more exciting than finding a new voice, then comes the story and the plot
-authors are now expected to work a lot harder than before
Mandy Brett from Text Publishing was next and was frank in her assessment of the situation:
- most people don't get published, it's a long odds game
-Text Publishing however, does take unsolicited manuscripts and they take them very seriously
-at Text you have to get two no's on an ms before it gets rejected
HOWEVER, and here's the kicker. Really you need to get yourself an agent. Books get a great deal more attention when they are submitted by agents.
By now you would have though we were sobbing into out little notebooks. But we weren't. In fact the delightful Alecia who was sitting next to me and I, were scribbling and tweeting harder than before.
The final person for this panel was Clive Newman of Fremantle Press. He was a soothing presence and told us the apocryphal tale of Elizabeth Jolley who had been rejected 57 times until they took her on. Good call Clive.
His advice was:
-where do we see the readership of our book? A book needs to attract a readership to make it a success. (And no just because your family and friends read it and think it's great does not a bestseller make)
-what is our marketing plan?
- and it doesn't get any easier, but by golly it's still good.
The rest of the session revolved around the importance of would be authors reading MS submission guidelines carefully before submitting. You only get one shot so essentially make sure you do everything in your power not to stuff it up. We were also warned of the danger of investing too much in the synopsis to the extent that it doesn't relate to the plot. And if, IF the publishing house takes you on *cue champagne corks popping* that's just the start.
Part 2- I'll talk the how to of getting an agent. This includes having the ability to be a dogwalker apparently. And I'll talk numbers. How much does an author actually earn? You may need to bring alcohol to the next post.
The delightful Lisa Heidke is guest posting here today. (HONOURED) And she's talking about a topic I struggle with. The fact that she is a top selling author gives me a ray of hope at a time when the laundry basket is full to overflowing, and my tragically neglected manuscript lies gathering dust on my desk.
Here are her words:
I also have a copy of her latest book Claudia's Big Break to give away! All you need to do is leave a comment about your juggling act, or if you have a question, you can leave one for Lisa and she will try to pop in and answer it.
Entries close Friday.
I will announce a winner on Monday.
Thank you again Lisa.
It was around this time last year I went on a course. For those of you who don't know, I taught English and Literature for many years before deciding to pursue a career in writing. The course I'd signed up for was one in editing. Though I had spent years editing the work of my students, I wanted some help with the editing my own article writing.
I know that unusually for me anyway, I've been pretty quiet here. I've been doing other things though. Want to know anything about Christmas? You know, like Christmas baking, or playing Santa for your little ones, keeping your kids safe at Christmas, planning your bub's first Christmas or being pregnant at Christmas or things to do with the offspring at Christmas well, it's all there for you.
Written by me.
I still feel a sense of wonderment that I am getting to write for a living. I feel so humbled that people like what I say (mostly) and how lucky I am. I am unbelievably grateful.
I'm also doing #nanowrimo and in order to fit that in I'm getting up at 5.30 am every morning in order to get my 2000 words done each day before the offspring get up and my day begins in earnest.
The knock on effect is that my blog is a tad neglected because a great deal of my energy is going into my other words. Thankfully #nanowrimo will be over soon and my self imposed deal of meeting the challenge will soon be over.
I have to say I am loving the challenges that taking writing seriously has created for me and the much needed self discipline as well. But I tell you what next Friday night when my #nanowrimo stint is over this girl will be having a much anticipated drink!
And this weekend instead of going to the dust laden hovel that was my home, I'd like to spend it catching up with you.
So if you like, please leave a comment and a link to a blog post for me to read. I promise to catch up with you at your place. xxx
You know the old expression: "One man's trash is another man's treasure?" Well so it is in this case. This weekend I am grateful for:
1. Large black plastic sacks. Mainly because of their awesome capacity to hold the shedloads of things we've had in storage the past few years, based on Husband's premise we may need them "someday."
2. Lists. I love making lists and there have been many made in the past few weeks. I get inordinate satisfaction from crossing things off them.
3. Writing. I have been given some of articles to write. As you can imagine, this makes me very, very happy indeed.
4. Desserts. Especially like this one I had last week on my date night with Husband. Blissness.
5. Playdates. Nothing beats the joy of all the offspring playing happily with friends while I tear through the house packing away paintings and filling up suitcases.
6. Taking books with me. Though why I think I will have time to read new ones, or revisit old loved books in the coming weeks I do not know! Always the optimist.
Have a glorious weekend everyone. We will be on the move next week and I'm not sure if I'll have much internet access. Don't let anything exciting happen without me.
What's on your list of grateful this week?
PS Maxabella, this is one of my favourite things to do each week. Y'all should pop over and see the wonderful links she has on her blog.
xxxx
A few months ago I had a vague idea for a novel.
Vague to the point of being a haiku really.
But I started writing it anyway.
For the next four nights I drove my husband berserk in bed (not like that) by sitting bolt upright in the middle of the night exclaiming loudly: "THAT'S a brilliant idea!"
According to my husband nothing is a great idea at 3am.
I kept merrily writing away in the moments and occasional hours I had free to concentrate.
I told an infinitely wiser friend what I was doing and she warned me of the following.
A manuscript takes 6 months to write.
Watch out for the 40,000 word wall.
Your manuscript is not your novel.
I blithely agreed with her knowing with ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY that I would have the ahem, novel finished in four weeks tops and it would be in shops in time for Christmas.
As one does with the arrogance of never having attempted to write anything longer than 700 words in recent years and the certainty that it would be "too easy."
I was further buoyed by the support and encouragement of some very generous writers who read my initial three or four thousand words and told me to keep going with it. Thank you so much ladies x
I had even organised three days where I would be child and husband free so I could get into lockdown and, you know, finish it within the four to twelve it was a taking a bit longer to write than I had thought week time frame.
Within two days of that conversation my husband was struck down with flu and I slammed into the wall with my story at 25,000 words. No matter about the 40,000 word wall. I was peaking early it seemed.
I had absolutely no idea where I was going with it all. I had a clearly mapped out plan but at the time it all seemed too hard to keep going.
I came down with the flu myself 24 hours later and left the initial print outs of my story in a drawer to gather some dust.
It became a stand-off situation whenever I entered my study. I refused to open the drawer and that way I could co-exist with what had become THE STORY THAT WILL NEVER BE FINISHED.
And so it remained.
Until a couple of weeks ago when, at the gentle but persistent urging of Husband I took it out of my drawer again. He has much more faith in my ability than I do.
And I started writing.
The break was good for both of us, me and my manuscript.
Yesterday I spent the day in the serenity of my parent's house writing uninterrupted for several hours. My mother would occasionally tiptoe in with cups of tea served on delicate china and delicious little snacks. She'd back out of the room almost reverentially and I would just keep going.
And I'm halfway there now.
Halfway there means I still have a long way to go. But I will finish it.
Even if it ends up only being my mother who reads it in the end.
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