Well it doesn’t always. But a recurring question I’m getting is how do I get more people to read my blog? I think it’s bit like setting up a new shop. It can be a terrific little shop but you do need to promote it. Word of mouth is often helpful. For instance, the past few days I’ve been trying to visit many of the new and wonderful commenters here. I read this post and have not been able to get it out of my head. I thought it was just so good.
But to get your blog out there to a wider readership, join in a blog hop. There are loads of them out there. It depends on your interests obviously. I enjoy writing and and reading other blogs enormously. That's why I'm sharing this.
These are 4 blog hops I am a big fan of and have participated in before.
But I want to share a couple of things I've learned about Blog Hops.

     1) It’s like being invited to a party. Your hostess will have some ground rules. Not draconian ones obviously. It wouldn’t be a fun party if they did. But make sure you read those first and stick to them.

2    2) You know when you arrive first at a party it’s often great? The hostess greets you warmly and all the guests arriving soon after chat with you. Being the first on a blog hop is a bit like that. Chances are lots of people will read your post and leave a comment. My suggestion though is to not necessarily focus on reading those posts. Mix it up a bit. Focus on the guests arriving last to the party. You know how nice it is when someone makes you feel welcome in a crowded room? Well be like that with the Blog Hop. Pick a few blogs to read from the middle or the end of the hop and comment on them, or follow them if you like them.
      
      3) You are encouraged to read and comment on all the blogs in a blog hop but sometimes that’s simply impossible. They’re often too big. But don’t make the mistake of linking up to a blog hop and then not participating. That is not the way it works. If you want to be part of a community, you have to be interactive.

 These are my favourite four.

Easiest Blog Hop EVER.

Allison Tait’s Rewind in the Fibro is fantastic. I don’t actually have to write anything! The purpose of this one is for you to link up old posts you’ve written to give them a new audience.
This is run on Fridays and over the weekend. Easy as that!


Positive People

I think it’s pretty clear I like to focus on the positive aspects of life. This is probably my favourite blog hop for that reason. Run by the terrific Maxabella, it gets you to focus on being grateful. At the end of a stressful week I find it therapeutic to write a post where I think about the good things that have happened that week rather than the negative. I have found some of my favourite blogs in this particular Blog Hop. That’s run on Friday night and over the weekend.

Health and Fitness

I’m in a constant battle to stay fit and healthy. So Diminishing Lucy is an awesomely inspirational blog hop to join in if this is something you are working on. She runs her Blog Hop “Fat to Fit” every Thursday and is one of the most generous and supportive bloggers in the blogosphere.






Fearless and Fun

The last one I recommend is Flog yo Blog which is run by the lovely Glowless. Here you’ll be able to link up any post you’ve written that week and join in the fun. There are often some great giveaways and really diverse and interesting content on that blog hop which is well worth reading.

Again, I’m not a blogging expert. But I do know these are thriving and open communities that welcome people. I hope this has been helpful especially for those of you starting out or struggling a bit with your blog. I know EXACTLY what that's like.
If you know any other great blog hops or you run one yourself please make sure you leave a link or recommendation in the comments section.
I will update this post with links to them for people to find. I know there are some terrific photography and parenting ones which people would be keen to find out about. 
So which one do you think you might sign up for this week?


Top Image courtesy of We Heart it. Thank you!


Other great Blog Hop Suggestions:


Fashion: "Fancy Pants" at Kymmie





Early childhood play at Childhood 101

We Play

Photography at HeyHarriet



My creative space at Kootoyoo

Photography: Wordless Wednesday Faith, Hope and a Whole Lotta Love






It goes without saying that every blog is different. If it isn’t, then someone may be committing a crime. That’s a whole different story ;)
I don’t pretend to be an expert on blogging, any more than I pretend to be one as a parent. But over the past few days I’ve had lots of lovely emails from people who've found me thanks to Blogs of Note, keen to know how to build up their blogs, asking me for advice.
I’m still learning about blogging all the time and what works for me, but here’s my basic guide based on my experience and what I’ve gleaned from others.
Two other bloggers who you will find it extremely helpful to visit and learn from are Al Tait, who has written this one here and Chantelle Ellem with this one here. Both are blogging guides I think are standouts and I recommend you read and follow them too.

Starting up your blog:

1)   I write on a range of topics, but you may want to specialize in something you’re particularly interested in.  Remember it’s YOUR blog, so write about what you want to write about.

2)   I aim to write five blog posts a week. Posting on a regular basis whether it’s three or seven times a week is a solid place to start. I don’t plan or schedule my posts however, I just write them when I can.

3)   Visual is important.  When you’re starting out there are lots of great templates you can use in Blogger, so have a play round with them. I had my blog done professionally with Danielle the Design Girl who worked with me to design a blog layout I liked. A blog designer I can highly recommend is Sass who is terrific to work with and has some gorgeous designs at very reasonable prices.

4)   If you are short sighted like me, you may find light fonts on a dark background hard to read. I also have problems with very small or squiggly fonts. It may just be me, but I struggle to read posts written on them.

5)   Don’t be afraid to illustrate your story with pictures or photos. Take them yourself or source them online. But always remember to either get permission from the source or give credit when you do.


Building up your blog:

6)   Comment, comment, comment.  This is where I started and I still aim to comment on lots of blogs each week. One tip is if you find a blog you like, go through their comments and click back to the blogs of the commenters. Check out their blog roll and visit their community of bloggers too. Let that blogger know you’ve visited them. Remember to build up a community you usually have to show you’re an active part of it. This is the most “hands on” way to do that.

7)   Leaving a comment “Great Post!” is a nice way to let me know you’ve read my words, but it’s far more likely I’ll click over to your blog if you leave your opinion, experience  or advice instead.

8)   It’s important to follow blogs or subscribe to them. Don’t necessarily limit yourself to a particular type. I follow everything from craft (which I’m hopeless at, but a huge admirer of ) through to food, fashion, parenting, social justice and travel blogs. 

9)   Use facebook and twitter to build up your presence in Social Media and develop an awareness of your blog in the blogosphere. I like Twitter myself, but two bloggers who use Facebook really well and are worth checking out are Childhood 101 and SquiggleMum.

10) I’m updating my blog roll today. If you’d like me to add you to it, please leave a comment and a blog link. It is a small way for me to help you connect with other bloggers.


This is probably the most basic outline EVER. I didn’t even mention SEO, stumbleupon or page views. Which should probably tell you its level of importance to me ;)  
I’m here to share stories and what I’ve learned or experienced, and while I do have some interest in those technical elements they don’t inform my writing one iota. I hope this has been helpful in some small way. And remember to leave a comment if you want me to add you to my blog roll. x

Image courtesy of We Heart It. 





I saw this posted over at Fat Mum Slim's this morning and loved the question. Equally I loved having a mosey round to see where other people blog too.
I blog in my office. I've spent quite a while carving out this space for myself over the past year. It's where I work and where I spend far too much time on Etsy as well!
I have my vision board for 2011 near my screen and a year planner beside me as well. I try to keep my desk uncluttered and clean, though all too often it's a losing battle ;)
My husband has a desk in here as well, but it faces the opposite way. I like that he is in here with me, I just don't like his mess!
My notepad with a daily list of things to do sits beside my laptop. My laptop was a gift from my husband and family last year and I would be lost without it now.
All too often though, I confess, I don't work here, I don't blog either. Instead I will sit and look at my garden and become hypnotised by the beautiful palm tree just outside my window as it sways.
Now where was I?



I keep coming to write a blog post.
Then I delete it.
Everything seems too trivial, too mundane, too heartless, too shallow in the face of all that is happening.
But this morning I realised that like it or not, that is part of life. Or my life anyway.
So last night I allowed my new kitchen to be put to good use



And the end result was this


 And the best part was I didn't have to lift a finger. Except to sip some more wine.
Actually no. The best part was having my family together. And seeing my brother so happy. We laughed, swapped stories and I realised that there is a lot of happiness still in the world. And also, that some of Jamie Oliver's recipes are awesome.
Here's to a better week everyone.
*clinks glass*



I read alot of blogs.
I remember when I started reading blogs and writing my own, someone asked me; "What are you writing for?"
Good question.
I think it evolved over time. It was a way of sharing what I wanted and needed to share with others. It was a way of connecting. It was a way for me to articulate (usually to myself) something I was working through or a goal I needed to set.
I enjoy blogging. I usually enjoy reading other peoples blogs. I've made what I consider to be genuine friendships through blogging.
And I don't for one minute think that reading a blog gives me a complete and total representation of who a person actually is. I may come across as delightful and witty, but ask my husband to describe me this morning and he would look anxiously over his shoulder to check I wasn't within earshot before telling you:"cranky and a tad unreasonable."
But recently a few things have begun to puzzle me.
I worry about those who share all too painful truths here, are getting their fingers not only burnt, but singed right off.
I worry that those in whom we place our trust, offer our support to, may not actually really need it.
It's like the way teens are often judged. The reality is, the majority of them are great, decent young people. And some are not. And often, it's the few who ensure everyone else is tarred with the same brush. As a former teacher it used to annoy me intensely the way this stereotype was both engendered and perpetuated.
And in some ways I worry about this in blogland.
There is a saying "Least said, soonest mended."
I could not agree with this less right now.
So I'm taking a little blog "holiday."
Planning a party for Miss Medium. Getting into training for my next fun run. Catching up on emails. Taking Mr Small in for surgery. Having my gallbladder out.
In the interests of full disclosure
I needed you to know that.
I promise I'll show you my scar.
Maybe not.



I know life's pretty boring around here lately.  There aren't any travel stories, or photographs of hobbits.  All you get is some petulant whining instead.    Well, get thee over to the Women's Colony, where from now on you can read my travel-related tales.  There's a new post there regarding our (three-day) hiking swansong before leaving New Zealand. There are mountains, and scenery, and we



I have nothing to say. Sorry!



It's been a busy day in the household. First, I went to work, as usual. After a day of working on something of vital international importance (I jest, sort of) and fielding questions about the latest issues to arise in the world of preventing people getting their just deserts, I did some Bookcrossing, and then went to my new class.Arsetanga Yoga, so-called not because it is arse, but because it



A friend came round and downloaded an Arcade emulator onto my computer. Suddenly, it's 1985 and blogging hasn't been invented yet.



I hope everyone had as eventful a Halloween as I did! We attended a party at the same house as last year. The costumes were outrageous, and I have decided that for reasons of privacy, I won't be posting the photographs of my colleague who went as Frankenfurter, or any of the other attendees. We somehow managed not to take any photographs of ourselves, so I will have to wait obtain some from



Two words: Mrs. G. I think this was perhaps supposed to be a Sunday thing, but because we're in the future here in New Zealand, I didn't figure that out until the clock had struck 13.The alarm goes off at 6.58am, but it would be too cruel to subject both of us to an image of that, so we'll pretend that the actual getting-out-of-bed proceeded smoothly and without delay, and skip straight to ....



NaBloPoMo comes to an end. While I didn't manage to post every day, the missing days were accounted for by computer issues, so I still feel pretty good about keeping my promise to myself.And now, I think I need a little break for a few days, so I can look through the list on the NaBloPoMo website and find some new and brilliant blogs to read, instead of partaking of all this navel-gazing.



I have no words. I have literally run out of things to say. Nothing exciting happened today: nothing. At least the Thug caused minor amusement yesterday by wearing brown loafers with black trousers. But today was one of those days where I went to work, I sat at my desk, and though I appeared to be working, no tasks were crossed off the To-Do List. Click to enlarge



I’m in the Cave.Normal service will resume tomorrow.



It looks like I am out of NaBlo. Dammit, I was doing so well - planning my posts in my head on the way home, fretting if it got to 5pm and I still had nothing to write about. And on those days, I still managed to pull a Dilbert cartoon out of my arse. But it couldn't last. I tempted fate. I commented last week on Jonathan's blog that I was secretly hoping that my shitty old Packard Bell would



I've been tagged by Lucy to tell you seven facts about myself. Some of them are meant to "random", and some "weird". Yes, I saved this one up for NaBloPoMo. Thanks, Lucy!1. I have a ridiculous number of moles. Actual proper moles, not freckles. Not even close to freckles. In fact I look as though someone dipped a paint brush in the nearest gloopy mud puddle and flicked it at me. Repeatedly. For



Blogging is a craft and it takes time. I have many posts lined up in my head, but work is crazy and blah blah blah. That's right. I'm not actively shoring up my resources in readiness for NaBloPoMo. You and I both know it's in nobody's best interests for me to have to post about my father's vintage milk bottle collection.



I have received two awards for being a blow-hard (the Thinking Blogger Award, courtesy of Crofty, a man at one with vegetation, and the Rockin' Girl Blogger Award, courtesy of Laura over at A Common Language). How very flattering!But now, I have a confession. The Thinking Blogger Award has been in the back of my brain for around two months, struggling to break free from the Shocking Truth.The



I haven't forgotten. I'm still thinking about who to nominate.



There's a gap, and I've set up a new home in it. It's the emotional gap between loving every moment of seeing your long lost friends (and most moments of communing with your family), and needing two days where the only thing you do is lie in bed under a huge duvet with a book and a giant mug of hot chocolate, while Radio 4 plays unobtrusively in the background. The yin hemisphere of my brain