Since I left the UK, I have been trying to shy away from whining angsty negativity in my blogular musings. God knows there was enough of it early on. I think I've been moderately successful, so I hope you'll excuse this momentary lapse in my pursuit of sweetness and light, and indulge me while I dwell deep in the cave of relationship conundrum.There was a time when, as a young student, I had